My dear classmate at Iliff School of Theology, Ru-Lee, is answering the questions about their trans identity that many of us have been too afraid to ask.
Show Notes: Faith and Feminism Podcast
In this episode of the Faith and Feminism podcast, host Meghan Tschanz delves into an insightful conversation with Ru-Lee, a non-binary and disabled author, tarot practitioner, and aspiring Unitarian Universalist chaplain. The main theme of the episode revolves around the journey of self-discovery and the interconnectedness of gender, sexuality, and societal norms.
Gender Identity and Pronouns The discussion begins with an exploration of Ru-Lee’s experiences growing up, their religious background, and the complexities of their gender identity and asexuality. The conversation challenges traditional concepts of masculinity and femininity and addresses the struggles faced by Two-Spirit individuals within Indigenous communities. Central to the dialogue is the normalization of gender-neutral pronouns and the importance of respecting individual pronoun preferences.
Polyamory, Asexuality, and Societal Norms Ru-Lee shares their experience of being in multiple relationships and discusses the complexities of polyamory, shedding light on its impact on societal norms. The conversation also touches on asexuality and the challenges faced by queer individuals due to societal norms and laws. The episode emphasizes the significance of understanding and inclusivity for individuals navigating diverse forms of relationships and sexual orientations.
Challenging Societal Constructs and Homophobia The text also delves into Meghan’s upbringing in conservative evangelicalism, expressing regret for past discrimination against queer people and a desire to learn and grow. The conversation further addresses homophobia in cisgender heterosexual men, attributing it to fear, power, control, and the influence of patriarchy and racism.
Personal Experiences and Societal Issues Various personal experiences and societal issues related to gender, sexuality, and health are discussed, including feeling objectified and unsafe, etiquette around dead names for transgender individuals, the significance of names in the transgender community, and navigating the medical system. The conversation highlights the need for understanding and inclusion in the medical community, addressing the impact of resource scarcity on issues like gang violence and poverty.
This episode concludes with a reference to potential solutions for prevailing social issues, encapsulating the ongoing journey towards understanding, inclusion, and empowerment within diverse communities. Meghan Tschanz and Ru-Lee’s engaging conversation provides a thought-provoking exploration of gender, sexuality, and the complexities of societal norms.