For a long time I chose acceptance over everything: the questions I had, the thoughts I had, my true desires and opinions.

I knew if I presented myself, questions and all, as I truly was some in my community might not accept me.

It took years for me to finally choose the truth over acceptance.

And now that I have, I won’t shrink or become something else to be accepted.

God accepts me, loves me, just as I am.

Today on the podcast we’re talking about fear, and how it sneaks into our relationships to keep us from being fully known.

Cindy Wang Brandt author of the new Raising Children UnFundamentalist and a speaker I heard at last year’s Evolving Faith conference, tells us her own story of being known, and how we can all live that way.